Learn to meet women in genuinely confident and high-quality ways, both in person and online.

BUY NOW

Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting

How can this book help anyone of any age? Here is what's inside:

Part 1 – Planning and Preparation: Get yourself and your mindset right. Develop the type of natural self-confidence that makes it easier to approach women. Know what you want. Define precisely what qualities you are looking for in a woman -– the ones she must have for you both to have the best chance at long-term happiness. Lastly, we define our rules of conduct for this entire process.

Part 2 – Meeting In-person: Next, we move to the thought process and mechanics of confidently approaching and meeting women in-person. We will cover effective ways to do this and what to avoid. This part is extensive, and densely packed with modern, field-tested and ready-to-use examples.

Part 3 - Meeting Online: Meeting women using the internet sounds like it should be easier, but many men find that isn’t the case, so we need an entire section for this subject. Toxic behavior on dating sites turns many ladies off. For others, their inboxes are full of unwanted messages daily, crowding out the genuine ones from good guys like you. Here we will use principles from Part 1 to set up your profile, and provide effective methods for reaching out to and connecting with ladies of interest in a confident, safe, productive and fun way. Loads of practical and reusable real-world examples are provided.

Part 4 – Cultivating and Sustaining: You’ve met someone. Now you invest more time to get to know her even better. You need to use the first few dates to see if she is right for you. Practical guidance to help you through these conversations is provided with many examples that will “wow” her, and keep her laughing, engaged, and interested. Here you are also showing her who you really are: someone she can rely upon; someone that she, her family, and her friends will value having in their lives; a strong asset for any future family that you might choose to have together; and someone that your children will look up to with their hearts full of pride.

There is no reason for you to be alone. Do it for yourself. Do it for the family that you envision building.

Sign-up for announcements

Get the latest updates straight to your inbox
“Pick up lines don't work. They are stupid. Girls think that you're a tool bag if you use them. Just be yourself when you go out there. Talk to her like a human being -- that's what she is right? She wants to know what's in your head and she wants to know what's in your heart.”

Olympic gold medalist

In Part 1, some great ladies kindly shared their thoughts for you guys in our survey
“Some of my best advice is to just be yourself. I know that sounds very cliche because it kind of is, but women aren't looking for a knight in shining armor or the best pick-up line, they're just looking for someone who is genuine. So, I think if you stay true to yourself you will also feel much more confident.”

former Miss America

In Part 1, some great ladies kindly shared their thoughts for you guys in our survey
“We tend to forget what we really want and what we are really looking for. To me, the relationship material person is the one who is meeting my soul, and that is more than what you can see physically. Flirtations are only beautiful and fun when they come from a real place.”

former Miss Universe

In Part 1, some great ladies kindly shared their thoughts for you guys in our survey
“I've never been a real fan of pick up lines, but I will tell you that the times in which I have been most impressed by a man who approached me was when we were both doing something we were passionate about, like volunteering or a sporting event. So, my advice to you would be to meet someone there that sparks your interest.”

another former Miss America

In Part 1, some great ladies kindly shared their thoughts for you guys in our survey
“The guys that stand out to me are the ones where they are actually interested in getting to know me. It's best when its a back and forth where we actually get to know each other like real adults. Just be open, and bold, and strong, and honest.”

Broadway actress

In Part 1, some great ladies kindly shared their thoughts for you guys in our survey
“The things that have always worked for me have been the people that were the most relaxed and the most casual, and who said something funny or had a kind of light compliment. And you have a smile on your face. So, I would just say that your best bet is to always just be yourself and be friendly and be genuine.”

well-known TV actress

In Part 1, some great ladies kindly shared their thoughts for you guys in our survey
“I love the idea of a man being thoughtful and intentional about what's going to actually get a woman's attention. The thing that really stands out to me are people who are willing to be honest about who they are, even from the very first conversation. If you can be honest about you, then I can feel safe being honest about me.”

famous film actress

In Part 1, some great ladies kindly shared their thoughts for you guys in our survey